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11 Common Questions Dog Trainers are Asked

August 19, 2015 by Fanna Easter

From Your Dog’s Perspective: 11 Common Questions

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As a dog trainer, I’m frequently asked the same questions over and over again during my dog training classes. Hey, it’s OK to ask since you’d never know the answer if you didn’t! Interestingly enough, many of the same questions are usually asked during the first or second class. This is because dog behavior is totally different than human behavior. So check out 11 of the most frequently asked questions below and understand what’s really going on from your dog’s point of view.

1. Why do dogs pull on leash?

Because you follow them. 🙂

2. Do dogs feel guilt?

Nope, they don’t. Instead, they react to your stern body language–basically, you’re scaring them. Please stop all the shaming photos. It sends the general public the wrong message.

3. Why do dogs bark at doorbells?

Someone (or thing) is on the other side and they are alerting you. Teach your dogs to do something else, such as lying on their bed, rather than bark.

RELATED: Training Dogs Polite Greeting Behavior

4. Why does my dog pee in the formal dining room?

Dogs are smart. Thick carpet and rugs adsorb pee quickly, so they prefer to potty in rooms with that surface. Never punish your dog for peeing. Train your dog to potty in another room or outdoors.

5. Why does my dog walk in front of me and stop?

Dogs have never been taught to not walk in front of you and stop. Dogs are like toddlers. They do the same thing until they’re taught differently. Train your dog to step back or come around by luring a treat into place.

6. Is treat training considered bribery?

Not at all. Lure reward training is a very effective way to teach new behaviors.

7. If my dog doesn’t learn, is he stupid?

Far from it. Dogs are super smart, and it’s our job to figure out how to teach polite behaviors effectively. Take a breather and look at it from your dog’s perspective. He’s probably confused and unsure of what you’re asking. If you’re frustrated, find a positive reinforcement dog trainer.

8. Should I train my dog to protect me?

Oh my gosh, no. Dogs should alert humans about situations, but not attack. Please don’t ever teach your dog to protect you, children or family. This is a dangerous game.

9. Why is my dog hyper?

Because he has never been taught to self-settle. This is a common issue with children too.

10. Will giving my dog people food cause begging?

Nope. The act of giving any type of food from your plate or dinner table causes begging behavior.

11. Should I act as alpha?

This is a myth. Forcing, staring, pushing, pulling and physically correcting dogs is extremely confusing to them. Picture yourself in a foreign country where no one speaks your native language. Now, imagine people trying to communicate with you–yikes! Throw the “alpha status” stuff out the window. It’s old and useless.

Do you have a question? Leave them in the comments section below!

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Calm and Assertive Pack Leader? Nope

April 6, 2015 by Fanna Easter

Teach Dogs Polite Behaviors Instead

How to Assert Leadership

If you’re researching this topic, you’re probably following a popular TV personality who discusses dog training. I’m beyond thrilled you’re searching for dog training tips and would like to provide my take on the thought process of a calm and assertive pack leader.

I Wish It Were That Easy

Oh, how I wish! If it were that easy, pleading pet parent emails would disappear from my inbox and dog training blogs across the world would become silent. My phone would stop ringing and classes would be empty because pet parents would learn to be calm and assertive and their dogs would learn to listen to commands.

Beware of quick fixes in dog training. I wish with my entire heart that I could wave a magic wand and dogs would magically learn polite manners. Trust me, I’ve tried and it hasn’t worked yet (big grin!). Training dogs is not as hard as you think–that I can promise you.

Remove the pressure of walking with assertive energy (seriously, what does this mean anyway?) and take a deep breath in and out. Don’t you feel better now? Good! Now, fill your pockets with yummy treats for your dog and, by all means, walk in a normal pace and posture. Click and treat your dog for good behaviors instead.

RELATED: Clicker Training for Dogs

Stop Blaming Pet Parents

Wow, pet parents are riddled with stress, guilt and shame. They’ve been told, “If your dog is bad, it’s because of you. You caused it.” I can’t tell you how many pet parents break down during group class in actual tears and occasional sobbing. They’re worried their dog or puppy isn’t normal. What caused this fear? Who’s subconsciously telling pet parents their dog or puppy isn’t normal? Whoa, let’s stop and take a moment to bring reality back.

I honestly believe when folks know better, they do better. Someone doesn’t consciously decide to teach her dog naughty behaviors. Now, there are fruit loops in the world who make bad decisions everyday and I really don’t think they would spend time researching dog training blogs, do you? So I’m talking to you, the pet parent, trying to learn the easiest way to teach dogs polite behaviors. 🙂

Can you unknowingly teach naughty dog behaviors? Yes, it’s quite easy actually. 🙂 So shake the guilt and shame off, and learn what really works!

What Does Work

Puppies and dogs don’t come with an instruction manual nor have they read one before arriving at your home— oh I so wish they did! It’s our job to teach puppies and dogs polite manners instead of assuming naughty behaviors are plots to take over our home and lives.

Dogs are a lot like children. We spend time teaching kids where to potty, touch lightly (same as puppy nipping), play gently, self settling, behave politely in public and when guests come over, and so forth. Bingo, it’s the same with dogs! 🙂

Can you imagine walking calm and assertive around your teenagers? They would giggle and learn how to manipulate a situation for a specific outcome. That’s called learning. 🙂 Walking with your head held high and chest puffed out doesn’t teach your dog anything. Instead, spend time teaching your dog (and teenager) polite behaviors instead. Remember, there is no such thing as dominance between dogs and humans. This myth was dispelled over a decade ago.

Putting the time in now will pay huge dividends and shake off that “my dog is trying to boss me around” and “my puppy knows what I want, he’s just not doing it.” This is not what your dog is thinking, I promise. Instead, assume your dog is confused and teach him polite behaviors instead. 🙂 Dogs get confused, especially when we don’t provide clear details, so take a step back and make it easier.

Polite Manners

Looking for polite behaviors to teach? Enroll in a group class and take a peek around. We have hundreds of articles to help! Blogs are extremely helpful to reference during and after graduation, but they will never substitute a great group class and fabulous expert dog trainer.

I’m not selling anything here. I want to provide easy, honest and current dog training articles that will help you and your dog lead peaceful and happy lives. That’s worth its weight in gold for me!

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