Leave Your Ego Behind During Dog Training
As humans, we try our best to stay out of our own way, but it’s so hard. While humans are extraordinarily complex, we overthink situations and our ego gets in the way. Human egos will certainly derail dog training, which ultimately hold back a dog’s progress. Here’s how to check your ego at the door when training your dog.
How to Not Let Your Ego Get in the Way
Give Your Dog Space
Learning happens best when humans aren’t around. When dogs learn, humans want to be a part of it, which is a good thing. However, it’s better when dogs learn how to make good choices on their own without help from their pet owners. Sometimes, humans just get in the way, unfortunately.
Think about changing behavior this way: It’s better for a dog to choose how to positively react and be rewarded than having someone tell him what to do instead. It’s like cutting out the middleman—a dog learns how to behave politely when no one else is around. Now, that’s freedom for a dog!
Cater to Your Dog’s Personality
Every dog is an individual, and learns on his or her own time. Assuming Labrador Retrievers learn quicker than Basset Hounds is false. I know some Basset Hounds that fly through agility courses. Some dogs punch in and work fiercely while others prefer frequent breaks. Each dog personality has its pluses and minuses, so it’s important for pet owners to understand their dogs’ learning style and adapt to it. Take your time; there’s no hurry.
Laugh and Let It Go
Oh, this is a big one! Dogs aren’t pre-programmed machines, so they make hilarious choices sometimes. Instead of frowning with embarrassment, laugh it off! Every pet owner has been in your shoes, including dog trainers. Once, I had a male Rottweiler urinate on my leg while presenting to a large group of fellow dog trainers. Consumed with teaching, I didn’t notice it until my sock felt warm. Everyone giggled and I laughed until I almost urinated myself. Mistakes happen. It’s a valuable part of the learning process. Don’t sweat the small stuff; laugh it off and move on.
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Stop the Blame Game
Learning is difficult, yet necessary. Mistakes are part of the learning process. When challenges pop up, and they will, take a break and reevaluate the situation. Assuming your dog is stubborn when things become difficult won’t help the situation. When this happens, the pet owner is playing the blame game.
Dogs aren’t plotting against you. They’re simply doing what works for them, or they don’t know what else to do in that situation. Before teaching your dog a new behavior, decide what you want him to do instead, so your dog training plan is super clear. When a learner (dog) is stuck, it’s up to the teacher (pet owner) to figure out how to solve the issue.
Pet owners will become frustrated when training dogs. It’s that ego again. The moment frustration bubbles up, or your dog becomes confused, take a break and reevaluate the entire situation.